I know how not having any free time can crush someone's spirits.
Basically, between 17 and 20 I spent my days that I worked exactly like this:
Shower, Go to work, come home, pick my mother up, take her to the doctor and sleep in the car while she was in dialysis or other appointments, take her home, shower, Go to work, come home, pick my mother up, take her to the doctor... and so on.
My brother dealt with my mother's near death surgeries and life threatening illness by working 365 days a year for the 2+ years that it was the worst. I honestly dealt with it by submerging myself, on my days off from work, in a rather unlikely place for support and help.... here. Or rather, Pyoko, at the time but, what I mean is you guys. (That is honestly why I care for most of you they way I do and spend money on you guys if I ever have something I can spend money on you guys for) I had to teach myself to socialize, and you guys did it for me. I can talk to anyone about anything now and I don't feel uncomfortable talking face to face with someone, or talking in front of hundreds of people, I attribute that to the social skills I learned her, and working in customer service for the last six years.
This isn't a post dedicated to telling you how to better yourself. I would never dream of thinking I know how you can do that. I just wanted to let you guys know it can be done and to say that I hope each and every one of you 'shut-ins' learn to be happy, or at least, deal with it.
I will note that I don't mean that comment to be addressing anything Brentai said. Sounds like he's fucked right now for work and debt and I hope he gets that worked out.