So I brought up this thread to a friend and mentioned the term of the use "Carebear" in it.
He had this to say:
While we're traversing this sensitive area, let's not forget that PvPers are sad children with daddy issues and raiders are lifeless basement dwellers with inflict naught but cancer onto MMOs.
I more or less agree, to the degree that said PvPers being talked about are the ones that spend 8 hours a day, 7 days a week on it.
The kind that use the term "Carebear" to describe anyone who doesn't PvP, in other words.
Yes, I'm aware FF11's PvP is, for want of a better term, 'lacking', but I've seen the term carebear basically extend to a general 'burn' the hardcore like to call anyone who isn't as hardcore as they are and who just want to actually enjoy the game.
The situation you posted about after this post Nor is what I'd call a 'retard.' Knowing what to cast and when should be a god damned requirement for being in a party.
(shut up, Alex, that only lasted until like LEvel 30 or so)